What if this was easy?

Emily Adair
4 min readSep 24, 2022

What a kid can teach you about all the productivity lies you tell yourself

A few years ago, I came across a mental practice that saved my sanity, my consulting firm, and my relationship with my kid — no joke.

It’s pretty simple: look at whatever complex or complicated thing you’re doing or building, or, hell, just the list of shit you have to get done in a day, and ask: what would this look like if it were easy?

Sounds easy (ha! see what I did there?), but actually, I found that it opened up new ways of looking at hot messes. As a single…

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Emily Adair

I write about parenting, love, dive bars, policy, designing an intentional life, and the future of humans. More at emilyadair.com and onewomanarmy.io.